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         <title><![CDATA[ 教你做投资前市场调查zt ]]></title>
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                   <![CDATA[广义的市场调查是以科学的方法和手段，收集、分析产品从生产到消费之间一切与产品销售有关的资料，如产品的生产、定价、包装、运输、批发、零售以及产品宣传情况、销售策略、渠道和市场开发情况，以至社会政治经济形势等。广义的市场调查包括：市场环境调查，消费需求调查，消费状态调查，产品、定价、销售渠道调查，广告效果调查，企业形象调查，消费者生活习惯调查，政治、经济形势调查等等。狭义的市场调查是指以科学的方法和手段收集消费者对产品(或服务)的意见，以及购买情况、使用情况和产品(或服务)销售情况等信息的工作。<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 我们说投资之前一定要搞好市场调查，主要是因为前期调查对于制定以后的投资创业计划有着至关重要的作用。来源于调查的一些数据和分析可以为投资者今后在进货控制、价格制定以及宣传策略等方面提供参考依据。有的投资者往往会根据朋友的介绍确定市场情况，这样有时会因个人观察角度不同得到的信息也是不准确的。有条件的投资者当然可以直接请一些提供市场调查服务的公司或机构来帮忙，而对于小本投资者来说，请这样的公司一般价格不菲，所以大家可以自己采取一些简单的方法进行调查。<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 首先确定市场调查的目标，如消费者流量、潜在消费群体规模、同类产品竞争情况以及价格情况等。以王先生要开一家小本服装店为例，做市场调查之前应该确定目标如下：1、店址周边客流量2、同类商家数量及经营规模3、潜在消费者规模4、高销量产品类型和价格5、同类商家的货物维持量及日常流量。<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 基本的调查方法有以下两种，可以灵活运用。<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 方法1：询问调查法。调查者直接接触被调查对象，通过询问的方式收集有关信息的方法称为询问调查法。它是由调查者向有关对象提出问题，以获得经营情报和资料的一种方法。<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 方法2：观察调查法。调查者亲临所要调查的现场进行实地调查，或在被调查者毫无察觉的情况下，对他们的有关行为、反应进行调查统计的一种方法。<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 如周边客流量可以利用观察调查法，到店址实地观测单位时间内的人流量，根据测得数据进行计算；同类商家信息则可以利用询问调查法，直接或间接地获得一手信息，作为直接参考。]]>
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                    <author>rurule路儿</author>
         <category>个人博客</category>
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	                  <pubDate>2008/11/18 17:16:53</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 感觉，那是距离 ]]></title>
         <link><![CDATA[http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/article/b237-i5195166.html]]></link>
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                   <![CDATA[<p align="center"><img style="VISIBILITY: visible" height="78" alt="淡淡的牵挂" width="508" src="http://i03.c.aliimg.com/club/upload/user/8/2/1/5/821597749639e38e55df8004b4a99088.jpg" /></p>
<p align="center">虽然还远远的牵挂</p>
<p align="center">心像是悬着似的</p>
<p align="center">虽然还是轻轻的问候</p>
<p align="center">话像是不敢触碰似的</p>
<p align="center">是我对眼前情形的错觉么</p>
<p align="center">也许吧</p>
<p align="center"><img style="VISIBILITY: visible" height="78" alt="淡淡的牵挂" width="508" src="http://i03.c.aliimg.com/club/upload/user/8/2/1/5/821597749639e38e55df8004b4a99088.jpg" /></p>
<p align="center">那空中风铃的悦耳</p>
<p align="center">的确是很容易让人幻觉</p>
<p align="center">于是把它拿到屋里</p>
<p align="center">没有了铃声</p>
<p align="center">我安静了许多</p>
<p align="center">只静静的想着什么</p>
<p align="center">但是，感觉</p>
<p align="center">那是距离</p>
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         	                  <pubDate>2008/10/15 21:00:26</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 跨越公司介绍---专业生产绝缘胶带  ]]></title>
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                   <![CDATA[<p>我司专业生产电工胶带，电工绝缘胶带，专用于电工使用的用于防止漏电，起绝缘作用的胶带。具有良好的绝缘耐压，阻燃，耐候等特性，适用于电线接驳，电气绝缘防护等，以聚氯乙烯薄膜为基材，涂以橡胶型压敏胶制造而成，规格齐全，价格合理，质量优质，欢迎来电咨询。</p>
<p>邢台市跨越塑胶有限公司始建于1996年，经过十多年的发展，已成长为集开发、制造、加工为一体的综合性企业，下辖三个分公司,具有完善的管理体制和雄厚的技术开发力量。企业通过ISO9001管理认证，由中国人民保险公司质量承保，主要产品系列有：高压橡胶自粘带系列，绝缘胶布系列，PVC电工胶带系列，手动打气筒系列（第三分公司）等系列产品。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;开放的经营理念，持续的创新能力，通畅的营销网络，经验丰富的专业人才，优秀的企业文化和员工队伍，世界一流的生产设备，多年被市场认可的良好的质量信誉和品牌形象，使跨越与众多海内外客户结成稳固的合作伙伴关系。<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;跨越人秉承&ldquo;不断进取，质量第一，诚信为本&rdquo;的创业宗旨，在广大客户和各界朋友的支持下，10年来，跨越的业务稳定扩展，在这里，向广大支持跨越发展的朋友致以衷心的感谢！我们将一如既往地为广大客户提供优质产品及完善的售后服务，竭诚欢迎海内外客商和各界朋友同我们联系，洽谈合作，让我们携手共创美好明天！</p>
<p>Xingtai Kuayue Plstics Co.,Ltd is a comprehensive enterise,merging with research,development,production,manufacture as an organic,with perfect management and rich technology development strength.The enterprise has passdethe ISO9001 authentication,and has been accepted insurance by PICC Property and Casualty Company Limited.The main products include highpres- sure rubber selfadhesive <em><strong>tape</strong></em>,insulating adhesive plaster,PVC electric appliance adhesive<em><strong> tape</strong></em>,PVC colored<em><strong> tape</strong></em>,macromolecule mechanical sealant,and manual inflator.</p>
<p>　　Sustainable development,quality first,keep credit is the tenet of Span people.under the supports of the domestic and oversea customers and friends from all circles,Span Company's business expands stably.By this opportunity,make our sincere thands to all friends.We will consistently provide with excellent products and perfect after-sale service.In order to make our due contrebution to the adhesive tape industry,welcome friends from all circles to cooperate with us to promote our development in all aspects.<br />
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	                  <pubDate>2008/10/05 15:36:30</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 寂寞如风，吹不走心里的身影  ]]></title>
         <link><![CDATA[http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/article/b237-i5055521.html]]></link>
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                   <![CDATA[<p><font color="#3366ff">曾经一个默默无闻的女孩，无论走到那里，都不为人们关注，但也没有自己的烦恼，只是习惯着每天应该有的生活，大家可能以为她很寂寞，但那对夕阳的微笑和对小狗的抚摸，告诉我们，她还是很快乐，像春风抚摸着丝雨轻柔的享受着自己独有的节奏。</font></p>
<p><font color="#3366ff">如果说，大胆开朗的说话可以看出一个人的性格，那么他也有不为人知的秘密。难道那些看起来没有破绽的笑容背后，隐藏的不是看不出的，更加寂寞的苦泪么？一个人的声音可以撒谎，但动作却不会，当我微笑的说，我没事。谁知道那不知所措的手到底应该放到那里。</font></p>
<p><font color="#3366ff">大家都以为那个沉默的女孩终于开窍了，终于可以和大家融为一体了。而当女孩愉悦的和大家说笑完了，谁看到了转身的背影是多么的孤单，一个人的时候，更加无助的衬托出想念的心里，是多么的越怕寂寞越孤寂的滋味。想想白天的喧哗是不是为了把夜里的自己忘掉，又或是夜里的沉静是不是为了把白天的喧闹与自己隔开，好让心里好好休息下。</font></p>
<p><font color="#3366ff">可是寂寞如风，任凭你随意的驱赶，却怎么也摆脱不了，不是风的柔劲，是我的不忍心，如果赶走你和思念你是一样的痛，那么让我永远在思念你的痛中吧。</font></p>
<p><font color="#3366ff">思念愈浓，埋的愈深，怕被发现，可是也怕不被发现，像这样矛盾的度过的日日夜夜，星空为伴，寂寞为雨，洗礼着不想拂去的思恋。</font></p>]]>
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                    <author>rurule路儿</author>
         <category>个人博客</category>
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	                  <pubDate>2008/09/20 21:09:19</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 云淡风轻 ]]></title>
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<p><font color="#ff00ff">雨过天晴后</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">总是会出现片片白云</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">在头顶上移动着，变幻着</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">那朵朵洁白的云彩</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">何尝不是漂浮不定</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">象没有家的白雪公主</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">惶惶忽忽地找寻着他的王子</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">时而</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">有些暗淡的云儿</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">飘过来</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">却又象是我好不容易隐藏起来的心事</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">飘飘然地</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">又飘在心头</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">被你的阴霾所覆</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">那风轻轻地吹着</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">不知是怕把我的白雪公主吓到了</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">还是怕把我的思绪吹跑</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">总是柔柔的</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">让云也总是那样淡淡荧荧</font></p>
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                      <label domain="http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/tag/0MTH6ebk1b4=.html">心情驿站</label>
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	                  <pubDate>2008/06/04 22:12:24</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 重逢的瞬间YC ]]></title>
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                   <![CDATA[<p><font color="#ff00ff"></font></p>
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<p><font color="#ff00ff">明天，将是一个什么样的日子呢，充满着期待........</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">当清晨第一缕阳光洒进来,我就会面带微笑地过一天,因为有你的相伴,那肯定是美好的一天.悠然小妆后,穿着你喜欢的衣服,轻盈地走在路上,花儿都在飞舞了.看着充满明媚阳光的天空,我的心也是一片晴朗.</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">渐渐地放慢脚步,因为怕惊扰了你的凝神,疑或是想吓你一下,不去让你发觉你的背后有我的呼吸,让我欣赏一下吧,那应有的坚定的笑容挂在脸上,是我一直倾心的面庞,看着你充满青春的容貌,我的手也不禁为之一动.</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">重逢,与你,是莫名的激动,是久违的笑容,也许还有些许的陌生呢,你不见我,为何如此激动,就连声音都在颤抖,是想你的笑容延续着我的所有,看到你的眼神,终于可以解脱,是世间的真情让生命更加珍贵,是你的笑容让春天到处弥漫阳光.</font></p>
<p><font color="#ff00ff">轻轻地走向你,是一种享受,是一种幸福,是一种感动,让这享受持续,让这幸福继续,让这感动延续,那么,我将慢慢地走向你,欢迎我么?</font></p>]]>
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                    <author>rurule路儿</author>
         <category>个人博客</category>
                      <label domain="http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/tag/zfjJzLjQzvI=.html">网商感悟</label>
         	                  <pubDate>2008/05/04 20:26:39</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 【大话当年】+偶的迷惑 ]]></title>
         <link><![CDATA[http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/article/b58-i3985273.html]]></link>
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                   <![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font size="3">&nbsp;<font color="#3366ff">&nbsp; 上高中时，我们都是分组值日，就是扫地打扫卫生啊，擦玻璃什么的，我记得偶是二组地，所以每周二都值日，注意下文，这段没好看的</font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 有一天，我在扫地的时候，发现了一张小纸条，我想看下，如果没用，就给扫走好了，这一看不要紧，上面竟然是我的名字，还不带姓的（我们那一般叫人名都要带姓的，不带姓表示。。。。），可纳闷了，看看这是谁的课桌，就知道了吧，可是，这几个人，偶都挺熟的，不晓得谁会这么无聊了，看着字体怪怪的，象是故意不让人家猜出来是谁写的，郁闷的我哦。。。。<img alt="" src="http://img.china.alibaba.com/club/upload/FCKeditor/editor/images/smiley/msn/19.gif" /></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 别提了，想了好几天也没想出来，直到现在我都不知道是谁写的，无聊写我名字干嘛？</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 我想知道是谁干的，后来偶就观察了几天，他们几个也没什么反常的动作，谁知道装什么呢</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 莫非是有人把纸条丢到了哪？莫非是。。。。。</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 不管了，弄的我头大，至今都想知道是谁，可又一想算了，可能是他们无聊时闹着玩的，这样就算过去了，可是有时碰到他们时，聊天啊什么，还是禁不住想问，又怕他们不承认，又怕他们叨叨，我又不是那小气人儿，就不和他们计较了。</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 什么怪事我都能碰上，还怕了你了不成，哎，说是如此。。。。。。。。。</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 这就是偶的迷惑了，这么年了，没人知道，我看就我自己知道，他们都不知道呢，呵呵</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 不知道偶是不是太能计较了，这点小事都记住了</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#3366ff" size="3">&nbsp;&nbsp; 大家有没有迷团要福尔摩斯解答的啊</font></span></p>]]>
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                    <author>rurule路儿</author>
         <category>个人博客</category>
                      <label domain="http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/tag/17fS5MTqu6o=.html">追忆年华</label>
         	                  <pubDate>2008/05/03 21:48:38</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 一个在名牌大学毕业后他的经历(二)  ]]></title>
         <link><![CDATA[http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/article/b0-i3631923.html]]></link>
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                   <![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AD</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">同学的办事方式绝对的雷厉，他手上有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个大客户，同时可以接下他们所有的会议和展位，并参加投标，<span style="COLOR: red">他的脾气非常暴躁，但决不是对你有偏见，只是因为你跟不上他的节奏。</span>他会将一切工作极有条理的分配给下面的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AM</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">与</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AE</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，他时常在饭桌上对我们说，我们是一条船上的人，现在全公司都看着我们这个新组能不能完成今年的任务，我们不能先垮了。那时的组里，气氛前所未有的团结，因为</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">leader</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，他很真。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我们接了个大项目，上万人的晚会，现场的每一位观众都是嘉宾，那是我迄今为止做过的最大的项目，一个月不到的准备时间，我们忙疯了。组里还有另外两个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AE</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，年龄与我相仿，最大的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">80</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年生。我们被分配了各自的工作，却需要相互协调，于是我们渐渐熟识了起来，他俩一个在公司已经做了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年，另一个却比我还新。于是，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">老</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">人带着新人，我们被重压压的喘不过气，却每天挣扎着往返于公司，客户，工厂，会场，独独没有回过家，很多天，没有。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我犹记得晚会的前晚，我们搬到会场附近的酒店里，时隔</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">8</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个月，我又一次住回了五星级酒店，可我那时完全没有了所谓</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">享受</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">的快感。脱下数天的臭衣，洗澡，然后直接去了会议现场，那里的搭建还在继续，礼品与兼职不知有没有到位，我得去盯场。还记得前两天，我在外地出差，住香格里拉，碰到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">MSN</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">上一同学，丫问我，哪爽呢？我回说，福州，香格里拉。他说，爽嘛。我说，爽吊，就</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">TM</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">一睡觉地方，还不知是不是每天都能睡上。如此而已。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我现在信奉一句话，<span style="COLOR: red">拔苗不能助长，但压苗却绝对可以</span>。那时所面对的压力是无法用语言表述的，举个简单的例子，上万名受邀宾客的名字必须反复确认并打印成桌签，同时，还需要确认外地宾客的航班和入住信息，这已足够让人疯狂，作为邀请来的嘉宾，在桌签上，他们的名字绝对不能有一个字母的错误，当然，客户的嘉宾名单还总在变动，不到晚会开始，谁又知道哪位嘉宾会临时不来，或者临时想来呢？而这，仅仅是属于整场晚会最不起眼的一个小环节</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&mdash;&mdash;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">嘉宾邀请所需要承担的工作。幸好，负责这个工作的人不是我，其实，现在我还是这样想。在这样压力下，我学到了如何操办一台真正的晚会的幕后流程，并疯狂的想要将这些存在我的记忆里。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">absorbingggg...<o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">晚会结束时，我们连抱头痛哭的力气也没有了。客户一一上来向我们道谢，握手，欢笑。然后，我们坐在地上看着搭建工人撤场。我永远也忘不了当时</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">leader</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">同学站在一边发呆的样子。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">经过了这场战役，我渐渐入行，慢慢也可以独立做一些小项目，似乎也没再接到什么投诉。在客户面前不再紧张和胆怯，敢和他们大胆的讨论并招待他们吃喝玩乐，也学会了和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">vendor</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">们讨价还价，吃拿卡要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我渐渐脱离了月光的窘境，开始向家里汇钱，并开始考虑买房买车。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">后来</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AE</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">结拜了，分别是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">80</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">81</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">82</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年人，我是老三，共患难的感情是真的。我们一起做大项目，单独负责的小项目上也毫无保留的提供帮助。至今我都无比庆幸，这份工作带给我的东西，并不只是让我快速的成长，还有在其他任何工作中都不能带给你的，将同事变成你的至交兄弟。直到现在。我在现在公司，有个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">30</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">多万的小活，发给</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">大哥</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">去做，他居然为了让我能向客户交个漂亮差，在成都盯了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">周，他现在已经是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AM</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">了，顶着公司那边的压力，公司那里认为他放着一两百万的活不管，跑成都去盯一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">30</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">多万的项目，简直不可理喻。可他说，因为那是我发给他的活，他一定得给我干好喽</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&hellip;&hellip;<o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">基本上，我的经历就到这里了，今年年中，有猎头给我打电话，让我去我现在的这家公司，因为有一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">event manager</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">的空缺，月薪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">16000</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，可以带一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">人的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">team</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">。其实，在毕业了三年后，接到猎头的电话已经是家常便饭，大部分我都会礼貌的回绝掉。但那个电话不同，因为在展览公司时我曾经与这家公司合作过几次，在同类公司中或许能排在世界的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">top 1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，至少我与我的同事现在还是这样认为的。作为我原来所在会展公司的甲方，我一直想去，甚至成为了我的一个梦想，因为他能让我接触到行业内更上层的建筑，市场部门的决策层面，于是为了实现这个梦想，我跳槽了，尽管我换过很多工作，但真正意义上的，光明正大跳槽，这是唯一的一次。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">房子是开春时开始装修的，现在也住进来有两个多月了，还在付着按揭。车子买了快一年了，跑得不多，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">21000</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">多公里，上月刚做过保养，我喜欢越野车，可又烧不起油（北京油价太贵），于是买了辆小的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">RAV4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，双门，不实用，纯用在周末有空时出去玩。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我有了个新女朋友，在我在会展公司最累的时候，她一直陪在我身边，像个小孩子似的，总让我想要保护她，时间不长，才一年半，将来</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">不知道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&hellip;&hellip;<o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">现在很多人说我跋扈，我想，那是自信，这种自信是经过挫折和压力无情的摧残后重新发芽长成的参天大树，不会再被轻易摧断的东西。有些人说我阳光，阳光是因为我已无所畏惧，即使面对再大的难题，我也敢笑着对客户说，没问题，交给我来解决。实实在在的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我感谢那段不堪回首的时光，尽管现在我还是不愿提起它。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">就写到这里吧。写了很多，把这些年从来不敢说的话全码成了字，酣畅。但愿能收到同龄人的回响，谢谢大家看帖。</span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="COLOR: #888888; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ccffff" size="3">如果你可以耐心地看完，请发表下自己的想法吧。我们都属于奋斗的一代，只是上天好象对每个人的安排都不一样。。。。。。。　　</font></span></span></p>]]>
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         <category>个人博客</category>
                      <label domain="http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/tag/s/XAtNWntcA=.html">初来乍道</label>
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	                  <pubDate>2008/04/03 20:49:50</pubDate>
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         <title><![CDATA[ 一个在名牌大学毕业后他的经历（一）     ]]></title>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">我是<span lang="EN-US">82</span>年，大学毕业<span lang="EN-US">3</span>年<span lang="EN-US">5</span>个月。现在一家大型市场咨询公司，自己带一个组，月薪<span lang="EN-US">16000</span>，未算其他收入与分红。也就是传统意义上的白领打工仔。在北京，有一套房，<span lang="EN-US">80</span>平，按揭，有一辆车，丰田<span lang="EN-US">RAV4</span>。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">说说我的经历吧</span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">我毕业于全国最好的学校（那两所为人耳熟能详的学校之一），学的却是一门偏到除了留校读硕读博几乎没有其他选择的专业。大四将毕业时，我发现考研对我来说无异于天方夜谭<span lang="EN-US">&mdash;&mdash;</span>我在校园里混了整整<span lang="EN-US">4</span>年，<span lang="EN-US">GPA</span>不足<span lang="EN-US">2.5</span>。更关键的是，那时的我早已找不到一颗作为学生的静谧的心。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">在经历了<span lang="EN-US">500</span>强，四大，国字委的<span lang="EN-US"><a target="_blank" href="http://edu.qq.com/job/"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span lang="EN-US">应聘</span></span></a></span>失败后，我决定出国，<span lang="EN-US">04</span>年的<span lang="EN-US">6</span>月，同学们或是留校，或是拿着新鲜的三方合同步出校园，我拖着行李回到了家乡<span lang="EN-US">&mdash;&mdash;</span>长三角的一座大城市，和我一起回去的还有档案关系和曾经妄想留在北京的户口。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">那时的我是心灰意冷的，我羞于在任何一个亲朋面前提起我是<span lang="EN-US">XX</span>大学毕业，那是一个在<span lang="EN-US">4</span>年前让我身披无数光环的名称。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">一年的时间，我失业在家，一个<span lang="EN-US">XX</span>大学毕业的无业游民，我开始准备出国，<span lang="EN-US"><a target="_blank" href="http://edu.qq.com/en/list_gre_01.shtml"><span style="COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">GRE</span></a></span>，<span lang="EN-US">TOEFL</span>，烦琐无比的申请，一趟趟的回学校开材料。成绩单上那一门门红色的挂科和蓝色的重修无疑在嘲笑我混过的<span lang="EN-US">4</span>年，也无疑是我<span lang="EN-US">4</span>年来星际，<span lang="EN-US">CS</span>，<span lang="EN-US">WC3</span>，篮球，燕京，小二，旷课，迟到的完美脚注。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">赴美的申请是成功的，一所<span lang="EN-US">3</span>流大学给我发来了<span lang="EN-US">offer</span>，于是，小康的家庭开始为我凑钱<span lang="EN-US">&mdash;&mdash;</span>没有奖学金的<span lang="EN-US"><a target="_blank" href="http://edu.qq.com/hwlx/lx.shtml"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><span lang="EN-US">留学</span></span></a></span>消费是巨大的，尤其是换算成人民币。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">然而签证没有通过，<span lang="EN-US">05</span>年的美国签证远没有现在这么好拿，<span lang="EN-US">3</span>流大学的<span lang="EN-US">offer</span>在签证官面前像空气一样被无视。而这时，雪上加霜，与我在一起五年的女友提出了分手。（打到这句话时，恰好看见她的<span lang="EN-US">MSN</span>上线，心里竟是一痛）<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">我同意了，她是北京的孩子，同校，同级，我们大一时便在一起了，那时的我们，都是初恋，她算是全系最漂亮的女生吧，舞蹈出身。毕业后，她去了四大，工作虽然很累，但不限专业的招聘，不菲的基本工资（毕业生，<span lang="EN-US">4850/</span>月）和高额的加班费（正常上班<span lang="EN-US">8</span>小时以外，<span lang="EN-US">3</span>倍），对一个迷茫的毕业生来说，四大就是天堂。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">毕业的一年后，她想买房，并有能力支付房款首付，而我无业，分文不名，出国梦断。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">她与我坚持了五年，她的父母也早已将我当儿子看待，可我们最终还是分了，当她向我提出分手时，是以商量的口吻建议：我们先分开一段时间吧<span lang="EN-US">&hellip;&hellip;</span>我同意了，那时的我，自卑的无以复加。而她身边，围绕着太多成功的男人。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">我心灰，于是母亲在家乡为我谋了个银行的差事。我便开始了自己短暂的出纳生涯。一个从来没有接触过金融的人，在银行里跟着柜员们学习本票支票电汇，为他们打起了下手，连自己的办公桌和电脑都没有，更没有人知道我曾就读于<span lang="EN-US">XX</span>大学。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">05</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">年的我，竟能如此放平心态，这或许是我今天回首那段往事，唯一值得自傲的地方<span lang="EN-US">&mdash;&mdash;</span>拿着极其微薄的工资，为银行的柜员们打杂，甚至其中的几个，是比我低了一届的大专生。我没有椅子，每天打游击一般，站在他们身后看他们出票入票，一站就是一天，穿着廉价的白色衬衫，在那些穿着工服打着领带的出纳身后，或许是很碍眼的。而那时的我，最大的梦想竟是有一套那样的工服，很可笑，现在想来。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">我或许是已经被挫折完全击垮了，从小学，到高中毕业，我顺利的让人瞠目结舌，小升初的保送，初中升高中的免试，又直接保送到了<span lang="EN-US">XX</span>大学，再加上运动能力好，身高<span lang="EN-US">186</span>，加入任何一个团体都是篮球队的主力小前，长相也还算不错<span lang="EN-US">&hellip;&hellip;</span>那时的我不明白，什么叫福兮祸所依。上天给了我整整<span lang="EN-US">22</span>年的，无以复加的优越，该还了。我现在，特别信这个。<span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></font></font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">一个电话拯救了我，我在毕业前海投的简历中，竟有一份在一年半后被某位世界</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">500</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">强的跨国集团公司的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">HR</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">拿到了桌面上，并浏览了起来，于是，我得到了这样一个工作的机会，欣喜若狂，欣喜若狂。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我回到了北京，有一份月薪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2500</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">（试用期）的工作，在全世界同行业的最牛</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">B</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">的公司，项目执行。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我到公司的第一天，就开始出差，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个月的项目，公司去了一个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">team</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">6</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">人，我是其中的项目支持。压抑了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年的浊气在这里似乎得到释放。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">500</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">强公司的待遇是无与伦比的，直到现在，虽然我已经换了很多公司，坐过无数不同的办公桌，有过难以记数的出差经历，职位也是一升再升，可单从出差待遇来说，都无法与我在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">500</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">强公司做项目执行相提并论。那</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个月的差，我们辗转了全国</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">17</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个城市，每人每天都有较高的打车额度与吃饭额度（各</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">200</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">），住四，五星酒店，单人大床，一人一间，航班只坐国航，每天</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">11</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">点才开工。这对一个刚从挫折中爬起来楞头毕业生来说，是怎样的冲击？我瞬间迷失在其中。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">现在总是想起母亲对我说的一句话，当时我躺在希尔顿的大床上，接到了家中的电话，母亲得知了我的近况，在我的洋洋自得里，只是对我说，你其实什么都不是，因为你什么都不会。你还没到享受的时候，也没到自得的时候，你现在需要学习。可是，我真的太自得了。这也注定了我第一份正式工作的惨淡收场。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我的性格中总是有那样纵容自己的因子，我现在已经学会了收敛它们，可那时的我不会，在灰暗的一年后，环境的变化在一瞬间天差地别，那是一种爆发户的冲击，我觉得自己终于摆脱了背运，于是我纵容自己吃喝玩乐，在关键问题上与</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">team leader</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">相悖。回想来，那时的我是多么的可怕，没有起码的职业素养，对不起自己拿的薪水，对不起公司提供的优渥待遇，更辜负了这个想要培养我的平台。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">毫无意外的，我的第一份工作在我出差回来后，就夭折了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&mdash;&mdash;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我没有通过试用期，无论我的直接领导怎样向</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">VP</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">争取机会，我还是被直接扫地出门。事实上，我在公司的办公室里一共也没有坐满过一周。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">第一份工作，因为玩忽职守而未通过试用期，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">500</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">强公司，这是我所有挫折中最大的一次，直到现在，我也没有让任何一位认识我的人知道这番经历，我想，我永远也不会向他们透露，这是我</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">25</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年人生里最为黑暗的一条深隙，深不见底。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我被打回了原形，于是我开始颠沛，像所有北飘一样在北京飘着，档案被</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">fesco</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">扔了出来，我把它放在了北京人才。我不能告诉父母我被解雇的事，我告诉他们我在北京很好，工作条件很优越，每天都能学到很多东西，可事实上，我已经三餐难以为继。我不能去找我在北京的朋友，我的哥们，我的同学，因为我不能露出我窘迫的现状，而工作一年多的他们，早已小有经济基础，出来聚会的灯红酒绿我没有可能消费得起。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我退了原先租的房子，找到了北四环外一处</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">600</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">的两居合租，我住小间，没有暖气。住大间的是一对刚毕业的学生，直到现在我也不愿再想起我的生命中出现过这样两个人，他们就像这段时光一样是我永远不愿放上记忆桌面的东西。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我开始找工作，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">05</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">11</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">月，天已很冷，我像大部分无业游民一样，像大部分</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">流大学失业毕业生一样，涌进人才市场，没有电脑，天天在网吧投递简历，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个月的薪水很快就被我花光了，于是我开始向家里变着法的要钱，理由繁多，如一次要交半年房租，钱不够。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">有一些简历得到了回应，而更多的简历如石沉大海，一个非应届的，没有工作经验没有专业特长的毕业生，很难有公司眷顾。而回应我简历的，则基本是一些小公司。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我去面试了，这让我见识到了无数千奇百怪的，窝藏在居民小区里的作坊式小公司，那是我在大学时代所不敢想象的工作。当然，我也见识到了骗子公司，打着招演员，招演艺人员名义行行骗之实的公司。还有保险推销员，我险险踏入那一行，我也直面了一个人的尊严是如何被另一群人踩在脚底的过程，脚下的那张脸上却依然满是倍儿真挚的笑容。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">有一家很大的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">local</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">公关公司对我表示了兴趣，他们想把我培养成一名文案。应聘的程序严格而繁琐，我通过了笔试，英语笔试，英语口试与</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AD</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">的面试，我意识到，距离爬出深隙只有一步之遥。可这一步最终却没有迈上去。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">总经理提出要和我谈谈，她姓韩。我坐在她宽大的办公室里，她只向我提了一个问题，你对于公关行业有什么看法。我茫然，这个问题如果今天再问我一次，我甚至可以不用构思的立刻提笔写下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2000</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">字以上的评论，可是，两年前，对这个问题，我的脑袋里只有空洞的空白。韩总留给了我一份作业，让我回去用</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">ppt</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">写一份</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">proposal</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，关于一个简单的新闻发布会。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我在网吧里奋战了整整一天，按照自己的想法拼凑了一份</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">ppt</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，那是一份在今天我无法想象的业余的东西，毫无条理的乱七八糟，不存在任何可行的细节逻辑关联。可那时我是那样满意的就把</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">杰作</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">发了出去。我想，韩总收到那样一份</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">ppt</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，大约感受和现在的我一样吧。我的面试又失败了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我再也抗不住了，卡里只剩下不到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">300</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">块钱，我绝对不能告诉家里任何自己的真实情况，于是，当有一家小公司答应录用我时，我竟是如此感谢上天给了我一份工作，我在网吧里，泪流满面，至少，这是家在写字楼里办公的公司。按他们副总的说法，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">XX</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">大学已经算是通过面试的钥匙了，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">oh my god....<o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">月薪</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3000</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，无四险一金，无工资卡，无工资条。我开始了我的第二份工作。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">最近</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">80</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">后的话题讨论的太多，我没有看过那部被热炒的《奋斗》，但那种毕业生所面临的迷茫让我不自觉的想把自己的经历写出来，这是我所认识的人中绝无仅有的坎坷，却又似乎映射出每一个大学毕业生的窘况，于是我想写。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">这是家做网站的公司，经营着一个高尔夫球网站，主要的赚钱方式就是通过各种渠道向大款高官们出售各个球场的优惠卡，养着一群装扮媚俗却又花枝招展的销售，不用想也大致知道她们是通过怎样的方式将优惠卡推销出去的。而我。就在这个公司担任所谓的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&ldquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">活动频道</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&rdquo;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">的主管。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">11</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">月的北京，草黄，没有人下场打球，更不存在什么活动。我便每天给网站更新些新闻信息，顺带着看看网页，打打游戏。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我在论坛上总能看到许多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">80</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">后的朋友抱怨小公司那种混日子的生活，斤斤计较的同事，欺上瞒下的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">leader</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">。我只想说，千万别慢慢沦陷在这样的公司里，在多年后渐渐发现自己开始习惯那样的生活，成为那样的同事。我痛恨那里。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我是个爱笑的人，即使是现在，作为一个部门里一个小小的头目，也常常被下面的那帮兄弟笑称为阳光男孩。可是，我永远也记不起我在那个网站公司笑过几回，每天与同事相对无言，看着彼此的扑克脸，再把目光移回自己的屏幕上，各干各的，沉默。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">那时找工作依然是我生活中最重要的事之一。网站公司是我维持生计的依靠，但决不是长期的泊位。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">在那段混迹于小公司的日子里，大学时我的女友找到了我，她从大学同学那里打听到我在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">500</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">强公司（我被解雇的事无人知晓），我们出现了和好的可能，初恋，迈入结婚的殿堂，五年的风雨分合，何等的浪漫。可现实却残酷，我回绝了她，我像是在一条漆黑的甬道里，前方看不到哪怕一点点光亮，我害怕她找到我，看见我深陷绝境。因为我明白，以她的性格，她绝不会袖手旁观，可那会击碎我最后一点小小的自尊。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我告诉她，我已经有女朋友了，现在就睡在我的身边。（这是当时电话里的原话，虽然有些像粗制连续剧的情节，大概是我也深受那些泡沫剧的影响吧）她不相信，哭，因为不想让大屋里的那一对听到，并引为谈资，我跑到楼下，穿着单衣在寒风里冲她大吼，我已经不喜欢你了！！然后挂上了电话。我那点可悲的自私的自尊。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我在寒风里戳了很久，然后上楼，睡觉。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">前不久，她在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">MSN</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">上对我说，收到你中秋祝福的短信了，我的父母也收到了，谢谢！我爸爸还说，再也没有人陪他喝酒了。我心酸，因为已经无可挽救得伤了两位老人的心。两位一直把我当儿子一样看的老人，两位逢年过节只要我在北京就会把我接到家里全家打边炉的老人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">06</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">月，经过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">轮面试，幸运再次眷顾了我，我被一家世界可以排上前十的会展公司录用了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">06</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">年是狗年，本命年伊始，有一个完美的开始，对那时的我来说。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">大逃亡般的辞职，我走出那家公司的大门，的确有这样的感觉。崭新的一切在等待着我，这是我所能把握住的最后一次机会了，我对自己这样说。我相信上天不会将机会卡无限次的派发给同一个人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">做过会展的朋友应该都知道，虽然十大最累的行业里面没有这一行，但并非因为它不够累，而是因为它比那些行业累得多。会展在中国一直没有受到过重视，只是把它作为市场营销，或是公关的一个附属品对待。而我，就在这样的一个夹缝行业中起步了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">公司的人手奇缺，可项目着实没少接，每个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AE</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">身上起码都背着</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">6</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个项目，有发布会，有晚宴，也有展台搭建。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我就在一窍不通中背上了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个项目，那是一段没日没夜的时光，每天忙到深夜</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">点，手机随时待命。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">一场最简单的新闻发布会，需要筹划场地斟选，场地租赁，现场摆台，流程，设计，搭建，道具，人员安排，表演，主持人台本，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AV</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">灯光音响，软件视频，摄影摄像，网络直播，礼品购买与包装，记者媒体，新闻通稿，媒体车马费用，接送飞机，嘉宾邀请，安排车辆，酒店入住，嘉宾台本，甚至是盒饭，停车证等等等等无比繁琐的事物，一场最简单的新闻发布会，仅仅落在电脑上的各种</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">ppt,excel</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">与</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">word</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">就有数万字之多，更别提前期各方面的沟通与修改，确切的说，只要客户方面有一点点修改，便是牵一发而动全身，需要会展人员做出最及时的各方面协调，而前期哪怕是最不起眼的一根</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AV</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">数据线在现场没有到位，也足以使整场精心策划好的会议砸锅。而那时，我竟身背</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">个项目，与不同的客户周旋，与数十家</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">vendor</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">协调。而我甫入行，一窍不通。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">刚开始的项目，我几乎做一个便砸一个。我意识到，做会展，需要有惊人的统筹力，规划力，沟通斡旋能力，需要你反应迅速，为人强硬却又进退有度，同时能说善写，当然，绝对要有无穷的精力体力和脑力。而我，似乎除了英文还不错，其他一无是处。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我能不能撑过试用期，这是我当时唯一的想法，那时，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">GM</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">经常把我叫到他的小屋里，告诉我，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">XX</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">客户又投诉你了。我低头，不知如何应对这样的诘难。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我被调组了，调到了一个新组，因为公司挖来了一个新的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">AD</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，据说是行业内数一数二的牛人，于是，公司决定把其他组里的累赘编进他那一组。至少，同事们都这样说。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">我至今感谢那次调组，它让我碰到了一位非常好的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">leader</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana">，以及两位我引为患难知交的兄弟。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></font></font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align="left"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><font size="3"><a href="http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/article/b0-i3631923.html">http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/article/b0-i3631923.html</a></font></span></p>]]>
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                      <label domain="http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/tag/s/XAtNWntcA=.html">初来乍道</label>
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	                  <pubDate>2008/04/03 20:49:42</pubDate>
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                   <![CDATA[<font color="#3333ff">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 在这个漫步的午后,我发现了春天的美丽,杨柳青青,每个枝条都吐出了鲜绿的柳芽,它的鲜绿像我的心情一样清新,向太阳调皮地眨眼一笑,原来是你的暖洋洋让我豁然开朗.<br /><img alt="点击查看大图" border="0" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open('http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif');}" src="http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif" style="CURSOR: hand" title="点击查看大图" width="454" /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; 意外地发现墙角那株不起眼的杏树也很夺目.朵朵含苞待放的花骨朵,像选美的害羞姑娘,却仍然遮不住它的纯白.几朵开好了的更是让人忍不住多看几眼.出水芙蓉的花瓣中间,是沉静在里面的花蕊,蓬松地散着,在太阳的照耀下,自由飞舞,出神地看着,原来是你的温柔让我砰然心动,放不开手.<br /><img alt="点击查看大图" border="0" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open('http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif');}" src="http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif" style="CURSOR: hand" title="点击查看大图" width="454" /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; 徐徐暖风,撩起我的头发,好熟悉的感觉,像是你曾经为我梳理的动作,我问风儿,是否是你派来的使者,风儿含羞,用它那特有的脉脉回答了我,于是欣然享受这种美妙.午后的斜阳抚过我的影子,太阳给的影子,原来我并不孤单,原来你一直都陪在身边,象太阳给的影子让我如愿.<br /><img alt="点击查看大图" border="0" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open('http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif');}" src="http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif" style="CURSOR: hand" title="点击查看大图" width="454" /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; 朦胧的黄昏,让眼前的景物亦真亦幻,如果我的眼前是你，那也一定是你在数一二三,告诉我,屏住呼吸, 然后一起呼气,从此你我心跳频率一样.阳光的味道让我身心舒展,原来是你的呼吸让我们心有灵犀,不离不弃.</font><br /><img alt="点击查看大图" border="0" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open('http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif');}" src="http://images22.51.com/6000/rurule1226/c6f351b49f77ad0a6054f6204920de3d.gif" style="CURSOR: hand" title="点击查看大图" width="454" /><bgsound loop="-1" src="http://www.lfqsqd.com/sj.wma"></bgsound>]]>
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                    <author>rurule路儿</author>
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                      <label domain="http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/rurule1226/tag/zfjJzLjQzvI=.html">网商感悟</label>
         	                  <pubDate>2008/03/23 21:04:35</pubDate>
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